Do you want to know about beta female strengths and weaknesses? Do you believe that they have more flaws than strengths? Or, is it because you want to help the beta female, you know?
Whichever it might be, I’m glad to present this think-piece to you. Here, you’ll find all the important facts to satisfy your curiosity.
So, c’mon, let’s get to the fun part!
Beta Female Strengths
More often than not, beta women are ridiculed for their position in the socio-sexual hierarchy. People forget that there are three more “inferior” personalities below this one. They assume that betas are the opposite of alphas.
But I’ll prove them wrong any moment. So, let’s show you how wonderful these women are!
1. She is serious about her career
A woman with beta personality traits is career-oriented. She works hard and never takes her responsibilities lightly.
She might not be as great as the alpha women. But her hard work is no less commendable. She is great in both academics and her professional life.
She independently takes care of her duties and never complains. She tries her best to reach her goals and doesn’t expect anyone to help her. She isn’t impatient and puts in all the effort, time, and focus on work.
2. Her advice is always useful
A beta woman is introverted and keeps quiet most of the time. She quietly observes the world around her and learns new things about it.
The beta gal is way more mature than any other female personality type. You might even suspect that she has the soul of a 500-year-old granny. Her intuition is pretty strong so don’t ignore her.
So, she always comes up with the most suitable advice for people. With her far-sighted nature, she’ll only suggest things that’ll help you in the long run.
3. She understands that everyone isn’t leader material
Society believes that only leaders are capable. They label followers as “losers that can’t decide for themselves”. But despite that, the beta female prefers to be a follower.
She knows that everyone can’t lead and knows that it’s alright. She doesn’t let the opinionated society ruin her mood. She doesn’t let anyone force her into leadership roles. Even if people compare her with the alpha or sigma female and look down on her, she doesn’t care.
She’s aware of her capabilities and knows what’s the best fit for her.
4. She’s a mindful mediator
Another strong trait of a beta female is her faith in peace. Again, she is a silent observer and notices everything around her. If there’s a fight in the group, she knows where things went wrong and how to calm everyone.
She always tries to maintain peace in her surroundings. Even during the worst fights, she remains calm. Violence never makes her cower in fear and her collected nature helps her deal with everything.
She helps both sides communicate their issues and reach a middle ground.
5. Her maternal love warms her loved ones
Even if your mother is not around, you’ll never feel lonely or uncared for around a beta woman. She is totally like a second mom to her close friends and siblings.
She’ll always have your back during the hardest times. If you are sick, she’ll nurse you back to health. If you broke up, she will cheer you up. If you are in a hurry, she will make sure you don’t forget important things.
Everyone feels cherished around her due to this motherly love.
6. You can always trust her
The beta woman is always loyal to her friends, lover, and family. She will always have their back and stick to their side through thick and thin.
As a friend, she will never try to steal your thunder or use your secrets against you. She won’t judge you for feeling a certain way. Instead, she’ll make sure to protect you from harm.
As a lover, she’ll only ever have eyes for you. She won’t seek excitement and thrill outside. Even if you aren’t the best partner, she won’t leave you just because a better man proposed.
7. She’s full of empathy
So, you had a bad day and you don’t wanna worry about her. You keep everything to yourself, but she will know about your troubles anyway. You might think she is a mind reader… but in reality, she is just empathic.
She can feel others’ emotions pretty vividly. She genuinely understands your situation even before you explain everything. She is the best at reading a room because she’s pretty sensitive.
This helps her treat others carefully and avoid hurting them unknowingly.
8. She does anything to contribute to a better world
Probably due to her empathy and motherly nature, she feels bad about how people in the world suffer from different things. She is an amazing person from within and wants to change the world for the better.
But she isn’t all talk and no work. She goes to any extent to fulfill her goals and support the needy. She’ll definitely join a group that helps her work for her cause.
Whether it needs volunteering, donations, or just spreading awareness, she’s always on!
9. She’s as intelligent as alpha females
Since “beta” comes right after “alpha”, people assume she’s inferior to alpha women in all scenarios. Little do they know that she is as brainy as the alpha queen. She might be the alpha’s sidekick, but she secretly holds the power to compete with her.
People also assume that she’s probably nerdy at most. But the beta gal is knowledgeable about everything. The latest technology, the steamy romance novels, the cool places to hang out, and the safest place to get drunk… she knows it all!
10. She doesn’t demand a lot from a lover
Most people assume that high-value women only want a partner with money, looks, and status. Well, No Sir, she isn’t a materialistic person at all. Rather, she believes in earning her own living with hard work and dedication.
And in love, she doesn’t need a lot from her partner. You only gotta treat her right with a gentle nature. Give her hand-written letters, pin a random wildflower on her hair, and look at her instead of her alpha bestie.
A romantic relationship with her is effortless and fulfilling.
11. But she won’t go for less either
Just because the relationship is effortless and she has no demands, don’t think she’ll settle for less. People often mistake her few demands as a sign of insecurity.
It’s all because she’s a hopeless romantic… but she knows how to value herself!
She isn’t interested in casual relationships and won’t let anyone treat her like an option. Unless you make her your priority, she won’t give you a chance.
She knows her worth and won’t accept a relationship without exclusivity, security, commitment, and love.
12. Her morals are always on point
She is always connected with her spiritual side, so she has high morals. She is loyal enough to help you hide your crimes. But she also has strict morals and preaches to others the same.
If you did something wrong, you won’t get away from her without a good lecture. You might say that she nags you or “she just can’t take” and it’s a weakness rather than a strength.
But honey, she only wants the best for people. She doesn’t mind how others perceive her so long she can make another great person.
13. She’s confident and doesn’t need to be validated
Some beta women have insecurities and I won’t ignore that. However, most beta gals are pretty confident contrary to popular beliefs.
Just because she is like a background character or doesn’t like to connect with people, don’t misinterpret her. She knows that she is one of the best.
She just doesn’t need others’ validation to feel confident. She doesn’t boast about being better than the rest and likes to soar the skies silently.
If people don’t notice her confidence, she doesn’t feel insecure. She’ll be as motivated in life even if people don’t understand her.
14. Brutal honesty isn’t her approach
She believes in a gentle approach in any situation and does anything to avoid conflict. If anyone does anything wrong or opposes her, she doesn’t silently stand it. Rather, she always stands up for the right thing.
However, unlike the alpha female, she doesn’t believe in aggression. She rather acts calm, and collected, and avoids hurtful words.
She never bluntly criticizes others which keeps others’ spirits high. People like to learn things from her because she cares for their emotions.
15. She’s pretty logical
Women are known to be emotional beings and they include their feelings in everything. However, when in a pinch, the beta woman never lets her emotions interfere with anything.
She only follows practical and logical thoughts and reasoning to reach a decision. She’ll never complicate a situation with emotions unless it’s something about relationships.
In serious life-changing decisions, she keeps her emotions in check. In her relationships, she’ll be emotional but still won’t let that spoil anything. She always prioritizes logic during sensitive hours.
16. There’s a lot of creativity in her
There’s no end to her creativity. She always thinks differently from the rest which helps her come up with the best ideas. If you can’t solve a problem, her creativity will support you. If you feel a setback is too stubborn, share it with her.
If you need help with your school art project, she has some ideas. If you want to change your home décor, seek her! Her decorative ideas are better than Pinterest. Her creativity can help you in any field.
17. She’s popular for her fashion sense
She is a diva when it comes to her clothing sense. Her outfits make her stand out quite a lot and even boost her confidence. With her permission, check out her wardrobe, and you’ll be amazed to find the most trendy pieces.
Of course, she doesn’t just own a spectacular collection but also knows how to use it. Whether it’s an office party, family event, or charity gala, she knows how to dress appropriately for every occasion.
Psst! You can even get some tips from her!
18. She never rushes her decisions
When it’s time to take important decisions, she never rushes. It doesn’t matter if people ask her to hurry, her nerves don’t give away. She can stay calm and collected in the face of any situation.
She knows that hurrying will only lead to even worse situations. So, she will take her time to reach the right conclusion. She takes enough time to think through and undertake her duties within due time.
She is a deep thinker and prefers to take it slow. She won’t ever tolerate mistakes in her duties.
19. She always helps others
If anyone around her is in trouble, she’ll never ignore them. Even if she’s hardly acquainted with them, she won’t hesitate to help. She will try her best if it’s in her power. If not, she’ll even seek help in others’ stead. So long it doesn’t hurt her, she’ll gladly help others.
But if it’s a loved one, she definitely goes out of her way to help them. She can’t stand if her close ones are sad. So, it doesn’t matter if it’s within her reach or not, she’ll help in her way!
However, I won’t claim that she has no weaknesses. So, let’s work on those parts here…
Beta Female Weaknesses
Even the alpha female has weaknesses, so how do you expect the beta gal to not? She is a human being and has some struggles in her life. So, let’s know more about those here…
1. She is often ignored
The beta woman is introverted, avoids social interactions, and likes to stay on her own. She chooses to be this way, but this attitude makes her face some challenges.
She doesn’t have her own identity and is referred to as the “sidekick of alpha women”. However, she’s as capable as them. Since she is introverted and submissive, people ignore her and always want to listen to the alpha-gal.
Since she doesn’t like attention, she’s appreciated on the low. People don’t know that and judge her. Even in romantic relationships, men notice the alpha woman first… and when they get rejected, they choose the beta woman as a last resort. Being ignored and treated like air isn’t always the best
2. Her love life progresses slowly
Since she’s introverted, she isn’t always noticed at parties… even if she attends those. Moreover, she likes the traditional approach to romance and expects her suitor to chase her.
Both these combined delay the blossom of her romantic relationship. Even if the perfect person is around, they may not notice her because she doesn’t like attention and isn’t proactive. It only complicates the onset of her love life.
3. She might suffer from low self-esteem
Most beta females are confident… but there’s a chance that the one you know isn’t the same! Since she’s always treated like the second option or a background character, she might suffer from poor self-esteem.
If her crush chases her alpha bestie and doesn’t even notice her, she’ll be devastated. If people ignore her talents and always chime in about her alpha sister, she will obviously feel less than others.
Of course, she doesn’t need validation, but her insecurities don’t comply with logic, right?
4. Impulsive shopping is a huge problem for her
To boost her poor self-esteem, the beta female often shops for herself. Of course, she doesn’t impose on others’ credit cards to have fun. But once she earns enough, she goes on a random shopping spree for cute, glittery, and shiny clothes.
Since it gives her a major confidence boost, she might often go overboard. For instance, she might max out her credit card or shop so much that there’s no space in the wardrobe.
Her family or flatmates might be annoyed at how many packages lie around the floor. Her partner might lose their mind because they can’t keep their stuff at all!
5. Anyone can hurt her
This woman is damn sensitive to criticism. It can drag down her self-esteem or keep her up for nights. She’ll be worried about how she will upset the other person and dive into a pit of self-blame.
Anyone can manipulate her or distract her with a few mean words. She gives too much power to negative comments. She might even struggle in her school and work life. After all, she can’t handle criticism at all.
A word from ThePleasantPersonality
If you want to help a beta female out, well, go ahead and support her to overcome her weaknesses. If you’re not sure, look up my piece about dealing with beta women.
Since she’s brimming with multiple strengths, don’t forget to learn from her. You can also help others learn from her but don’t impose extra responsibilities on her.
Appreciate her even if she doesn’t demand it and keep an amicable bond with her. She’ll thrive even more in positive environments!