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25 Beta Female Traits You Must Not Miss

25 Beta Female Traits You Must Not Miss

Updated on Jan 11, 2023 | Published on Jan 11, 2023

Reviewed by Dr. Nereida Gonzalez-Berrios, MD , Certified Psychiatrist

25 Beta Female Traits You Must Not Miss - ThePleasantPersonality

Are you interested in the beta female traits? Do you think there might be one around you? Want to make sure whether your guess is right?

Then, my friend, my think-piece will support you with all the details. I’ll not only clear the confusion but also help you know her better.

So, let’s begin!

Beta Female Traits

Beta women are powerful, empathic, caring, and intelligent. However, they prefer to be background characters in an alpha woman’s life. She feels comfortable and safe being away from the spotlight. I’m sure you’re curious to know many more interesting facts about her

So, let’s get to know her here together…

1. She’s the alpha woman’s bestie

Women with beta personality types are always the sidekicks of alpha females. They are the intelligent ones that actually become like background characters because the alpha female personalities shine way too hard. They are in the frame but somehow get ignored by everyone.

It’s not that they are completely fine and sometimes, they envy their friend. But the beta female prefers her relationship with her alpha queen this way. She won’t change a thing about it as she quickly gets over the negative thoughts.

2. A strong work ethic is always on her mind

A woman with beta personality traits is also known for being career-oriented and a hard worker. The beta female doesn’t ignore her responsibilities. She may not shine as hard as the alpha female but she excels in both her studies and career.

She understands that no good thing comes easy and she must put in the effort, take time, and be patient to reach the pinnacle. She never expects people to help her out and tries to independently do everything to fulfill her dreams.

3. You’ll always receive great advice from her

If there’s a beta woman in any of your circles, everyone seeks her advice. This woman is so wise that you might say that she has the soul of a grandma inside her.

She’s not outgoing and usually observes everyone. So, she knows what the best is for anyone. Even if you don’t know what hurts you the most, she does.

Her sixth sense is pretty sharp, so her intuitive advice will always help you. Never ignore her advice and you’ll be forever grateful!

4. She prefers to follow instead

In the workplace, beta women might be great leaders but they feel comfortable only when they follow another leader. They aren’t interested in leading a team.

This is because a beta woman knows that she is not as amazing and charismatic as an alpha or sigma female. From the depths of her heart, she doesn’t want such roles, so she’s aware that she can’t give her 100% in leadership positions.

Instead, she wants to focus on her own tasks and prove herself. She doesn’t want to be responsible for everyone’s tasks. She can’t balance so many sides together.  

5. She’s a great peacemaker

If you ever have any issue or fight with anyone in the group, seek the beta girl. She’ll always have your back as she’s a great mediator. Since she’s often ignored and pushed to the background, she quietly observes others. So, she knows who’s right and who’s wrong.

She can also stay calm and collected during conflicts. She might be usually quiet, but she can state her mind when necessary. Of course, it doesn’t imply that she’ll take your side even if you’re wrong. Rather, she’ll help you guys talk things out and reach a middle ground.  

6. Her motherly care is pretty natural

Being like a mom is like second nature to a beta woman. The way she’ll take care of you after a breakup or a bad hangover, you’ll think she’s an angel pretending to be your mom.

You’ll even think this woman was born to be a mother. Or, you guys probably already imagine the love and nourishment she’ll give her child.

She’ll look after you or even your loved one. Just like a mom, she always remembers everything and reminds others to grab their things to have a better day.

7. She’s the most trustworthy person you’d ever meet

In both her friendships and relationships, she’s always loyal. If she’s your friend, you can always pour your heart out without any fear. She’ll never try to use your secrets against you.

She won’t try to steal your thunder. She’s never that backstabbing bitch that’ll snatch your boyfriend. Rather, she’ll wish the best for you and support you through the ups and downs.

If she’s your girlfriend, you’re the only man she ever thinks of romantically. No matter how hot or rich another guy is, she won’t cheat on you.

8. She’s empathetic

The beta gal is also known for being extremely sensitive to the energy around her. Or, you can say she just has a lot of empathy. She can read everyone’s mood the moment she enters a room.

Even if you don’t tell her the entire story, she’ll know everything about you. Her intuitive mind helps her read people like the back of her hand.

She was born with this trait of being able to sense others’ emotions like her own.

9. She’s a total introvert

I wonder if you already guessed it… okay here are the hints: she’s the sidekick, usually ignored, accepts being a background character, and doesn’t want to be a leader.

Welp, she is introverted, shy, and reserved, and likes to enjoy her own company. She hangs out with her alpha bestie but she doesn’t like the limelight on herself.

It’s not that she can’t be extroverted. If push comes to pull, she can change her attitude. But introversion defines her comfort zone. So, if she must party with an alpha female, she will. But she’s as or even happier when she’s on her own.

10. She wants to build a better world for everyone

The beta woman dreams of improving the world her way. She has a few causes in her mind. She aims to serve this world in her own way and wants to dedicate her life to others’ welfare.

Her motherly love doesn’t just stay confined to her loved ones. She wants to be a person that helps people in need. She doesn’t care if she’s not remembered by others… but she desires to make people smile. She wants to invest her time and energy in a big cause or two.

11. She’s both book-smart and street-smart

Since she’s the “beta” and not the alpha… Many assume that she isn’t that intelligent. She often faces prejudices from random strangers and even family members.

People assume that she got second place because she’s not that good. They fail to register that there are three more personality types below the beta.

But whoa there… don’t assume that she’s nerdy. Because this chick is sharp both about the books and the latest fun clubs. She is highly intelligent about everything around her.

12. She doesn’t like attention

The beta woman doesn’t like any kind of attention from others. Due to her introversion, she likes to be on her own and play around without being noticed.

On the professional platform or anywhere else, she will work her a$$ off but she doesn’t want to be called out for being the employee of the year. She’d rather appreciate being told that one-to-one by her boss or manager.

Mean people always assume that she’s not good enough so she works behind the scenes. But she chose it for herself because she’s comfortable that way.

13. Either you make the first move or nobody does!

In romantic relationships, a beta woman believes in the traditional approach. She’s pretty feminine and expects her partner or crush to make the first move.

She’ll never chase anyone by herself and expects the other person to initiate contact. Whether it’s for a chat, exchanging numbers, or going on dates… she wants her partner to take charge.

She can take charge, but she appreciates it if her partner is more proactive. So, if you ask her where she wants to eat, she’ll answer, but she wants you to put some thought into it!

14. Hopeless romanticism is her thing

She secretly desires the romance in fairy tales and movies to happen in her life. She wants a prince(ss) to be spellbound by her beauty and brains instead of feeling drawn to her alpha bestie. She desires her own Cinderella story someday.

And guess what, you don’t need a lot to impress her. She’ll blush and melt in your arms if you get her flowers plucked from your yard and a short hand-written note. She doesn’t demand a lot but has these small expectations.

15. Modern dating scene isn’t her cup of tea

She can handle a casual connection, but she prefers not to. She wants commitment in romance and doesn’t want to experiment with multiple options in dating.

She wants to settle down with one partner and expects the same from them. She desires someone that will comfort her with security, exclusivity, commitment, and undying love.

Thankfully, she knows her value and even if she can deal with a shallow relationship, she won’t settle for it. She’ll wait until the one that cherishes her appears.

16. She’ll always guide you morally

The beta woman has great morals, so she’ll always guide you to do the right things. She’s in tune with spirituality and follows her beliefs even if people around her have low morals.

If you made a mistake and want to cover things up, a loyal beta woman will help you with everything. But once the deed is done, you’ll get a hell long talk about what’s right and what’s wrong.

She’ll never change her beliefs even if that means standing out too much. She won’t support immoral causes.

17. She might be secretly confident

Of course, some beta females feel insecure about themselves. But most of them are confident yet quiet. They know they are the best but never seek validation for that.

They don’t feel insecure about being in the background or being ignored. Instead, they feel comfortable and confident because they get privacy to unleash their power. They can put their mind on full throttle to chase their goals. Even if people look down on them for being second, they know their value pretty well.

18. She prefers a passive approach to her opinions

If you ever approach a beta female with a problem and you’re at fault, she’ll never hurt you. She doesn’t like to aggressively attack anyone even if they are wrong. She’ll never bluntly criticize anyone as she hates to see others sad.

Instead, she’ll sugarcoat her words to avoid hurting anyone. She chooses her words wisely so people understand her viewpoint instead of getting angry at her.

Anytime you hit her up about trouble at the office or with your love life, she’ll always be kind.

19. Practical thought process is her only choice

She’s a deep thinker and, unlike the stereotypical definition of females, she only has practical and rational thoughts. When it’s time to think, she doesn’t let her emotions overpower her.

Rather, she can focus on the actual problem as her emotions don’t cloud her mind. So, if she ever faces relationship troubles, she’ll never extend a fight unnecessarily.

Even at work, instead of blaming others for their fault, she’ll focus on the main agenda. And she always puts forth logical thoughts to settle issues.

20. She has unique creative energy

The beta woman has outstanding creative energy and an artistic side. She’s proficient in the art, crafts, décor, and other similar things.

If you have an artsy school project due, seek her and you’ll definitely get some unique ideas. If you want some interior décor tips but don’t want to spend bucks on it, seek the beta gal!

She’s so good at art that she’ll probably work in a creative or artistic field. She always gathers inspiration wherever she goes. In social situations, she quietly gets new creative ideas from her surroundings.

She’s not only good at art and décor but also has spectacular taste in fashion. She uses fashion to boost her confidence and self-esteem every day. When she wears amazing outfits, she feels a ton more attractive.

If she’s broke, she won’t mind mixing and matching her old outfits to create something trendy. If she doesn’t have money on her, she uses her brain to create fashionable pieces.

22. She’s an impulsive shopper

If she has enough money, her wardrobe won’t be enough for her clothes. She’s a fashionista and if money isn’t the problem for her, nothing can stop her from placing orders on Shein or Amazon.

She loves to dress up as it ups her confidence game. And when she makes money from her job, she’ll hardly have time to invest time and energy in creating new clothes from scratch or by mixing. She’ll instead put her money to good use!

But it’s not just clothes… bags, shoes, jewelry, or anything that makes them feel confident!

Especially, if a beta gal’s confidence runs low, this is a great way to make her feel better. But this can later turn into an addiction.

23. Her decisions are never rushed

Before any decision, she takes a lot of time to think things through. She thinks deeply before any action. In her professional life, she won’t try to grab harder projects or promotions without understanding the responsibilities.

In her romantic life, she won’t rush into a relationship or touch a new milestone just because her partner wants to.

She won’t rush just because others will be happy about it. Instead, she prioritizes her own feelings during important decisions.

As she’s a deep thinker, she usually comes up with even better plans if she can’t meet others’ expectations.

24. She’s not good with criticism

If she gets criticized or rejected, it can crumble her self-esteem down. She’ll overthink and worry over the criticism. She goes out of her way to avoid upsetting anyone.

When someone is truly upset, she doesn’t know how to deal with it. Her spirits are easily pulled down this way. This is her awful weakness and she must not give so much power to others.

Moreover, criticism, rejection, and negative comments are normal at work. So, it’s tough for her to stay motivated and confident at her job.

25. She eagerly helps everyone!

If you’re ever in trouble, a beta female will always try to help you out. Even if you’re a stranger, she’ll help you out in whatever way she can. She won’t stay calm if someone around her needs urgent help. If it’s in her power, she’ll help you out.

But if you’re a loved one, she’ll go out of her way to support you. Even if it means putting herself in inconvenience, she’ll do it. 

A word from ThePleasantPersonality

The beta female is introverted and shy, so you can’t easily spot her. However, she usually hangs around with her high-spirited alpha bestie. So, she’s most probably around her.

Though she’s kind and caring, she’s pretty sensitive. So, try to treat her well and respect her for her choices.

If you feel you’re a beta female, find your weaknesses and work on yourself. You deserve so much more happiness, so don’t lose sight of that!

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