You must know about gamma male strengths and weaknesses, especially if you have one around you. These men aren’t that favored by society. But they aren’t as bad as you think them to be.
So, before you judge them based on rumors, take a moment to know them better.
C’mon, take a quick tour here!
Gamma Male Strengths
Almost everyone around you will point out a gamma male’s weakness to you. Avoiding conflict to acting entitled… People will mention all of them, But they hardly know about their strengths. So, have a closer look here!
1. He is intelligent in his field
A man with a gamma male personality type might not be as intelligent as the alpha and sigma males. However, he is great in his own choice of career and studies. Once he finds out his passions, he has a lot of scope for growth. He can be the best of the best in his own field.
If he stays dedicated to the right goals, he can be as good as the sigma or alpha males. He’ll be a respectable and successful genius pretty soon on the right path and become as confident as the other types of men.
2. He’s compassionate and empathetic
One of the most likable traits of this type of man is his kindness. If anyone around him is struggling he won’t ignore them. Rather, due to his empathy, he can get a hold of others’ feelings and thoughts pretty fast.
If you’re going through a rough time but feel too shy to express it, he’ll know it in no time. He’ll try to help you as much as he can in his own way. If you’re special to him, he’ll even go out of his way to support you. He likes to play the “nice guy”.
3. He doesn’t feel shame for being feminine
A man with the traits of a gamma male often appears feminine. He invests time, money, and energy in taking care of himself. He pampers his skin unlike men that show off they need nothing. He doesn’t want to appear manly at the expense of his own comfort.
The world might look down on him for being “too girly”. But he’s confident about the way he leads his life and cares for himself. If he wants to try out 10-step skincare, he will. Even if his guy friends are over, he won’t skip his regime just out of shame.
4. He likes to seek riskless and pleasant adventures
Any man with the gamma male archetype avoids risks like the plague. However, it doesn’t mean he won’t take chances. He is fun-loving and goes on adventures in some other way. But it doesn’t end at the trekking or “setting off to a nameless city” kind of adventure.
For instance, he won’t blindly listen to others. Even if he has the same goals as everyone else, he’ll sometimes take a different route. This allows him more freedom, experiences, and new lessons.
He likes exploring life on his own terms. So, he definitely doesn’t lead a boring life. He enjoys his life as he builds himself from scratch without others’ help.
5. He proudly follows
Just because he likes to go on adventures, did you assume that he makes the big decisions alone?
Well, first of all, he is nothing like the lone wolf. He doesn’t like or prefer to work solo. Secondly, he doesn’t want to take any risk and face its consequences later. He knows his limits and doesn’t try to act beyond his power.
So, he doesn’t ever try to lead in his personal, academic, professional, or social life. Instead, he follows someone else and feels proud about it. Even if people look down on him, he’s certain about his choices.
6. He’s pretty self-aware
One of the impressive personality traits of a gamma male is his self-awareness. It is said that alpha male is more likable if they become like gamma males. In other words, an alpha turning self-aware is a pleasant man.
Even the best men are recommended to be gamma when it comes to self-awareness. You can probably guess how awesome of a strength it is in gamma men.
A gamma man is aware of his actions and words. He doesn’t mindlessly say things only to hurt others. He chooses his words wisely when dealing with others. Moreover, since he’s an empath, he knows exactly how others feel. His self-aware actions prevent him from pushing others to the edge.
7. You can easily uplift him
The gamma man is emotionally hypersensitive, so he doesn’t need a lot to feel happy. He can be on cloud nine from the smallest compliments. He feels respected when someone gives sweet feedback.
Since he can boost his mood easily from the minute things, he can also regain confidence this way. He won’t feel low for too long if someone supports him. His loved ones can easily bring him back on the tracks.
But of course, I won’t lie to you. So, let’s know about the concerning facts here…
Gamma Male Weaknesses
People have a good reason to criticize gamma men. They aren’t the best in the entire hierarchy. In fact, they have more weaknesses than strengths. So, you can tell why they often come on people’s bad lists. C’mon, let’s get on with the list!
1. His wits only help him with a few nerdy things
Gamma males are intelligent but they aren’t all-rounders. They have limited intellect in only 2 to 3 nerdy subjects. So, they can’t deal with regular life issues that well.
Their parents or mentor usually force them to try out new challenges. They faced difficulties when people notice their limited intellect. Others’ disappointment is a huge burden for them. This pulls down their spirits and their confidence takes a huge blow.
2. He suffers from nice guy syndrome due to empathy
He is empathetic and kind enough to help everyone around him. He often feels that he’s the best man around himself because nobody else is as helpful as him. This often bloats up to the nice guy syndrome.
He feels that women must naturally feel attracted to his kindness. They must notice him more than other men and feel romantically and sexually attracted. He believes that the better he acts in society, the more women fall for him.
He might even feel angry when no lady appreciates his kind gestures. He silently suffers when the ladies don’t react as he expects.
3. You can’t say he’s attractive
No, this is neither my personal opinion nor do I want you to think this way. Personally, I don’t judge people’s appearances for anything. However, the remaining world isn’t the same. And looks are indeed the foundation of superficial attraction.
The gamma male doesn’t care much about his looks and gets judged. His romantic interests often feel turned off. “If a man can’t take care of his body, how will he protect me?” or something similar goes in their mind. Men and women equally judge him for letting go of his looks.
4. Hopeless romanticism doesn’t help his love life
“He’s also a hopeless romantic” might make a maiden’s heart flutter. But when you meet a gamma male in person, you might not like his romanticism.
He goes above and beyond to court his romantic interest. He believes in showing grand gestures… which is great. However, he believes love is completely the same as in TV shows and romantic movies and novels.
“Even if I’m not good-looking, I’m romantic and intelligent. So, my crush WILL DEFINITELY like me!”
He only ever goes grand with his actions and gifts but never takes care of his looks. This idea never helps him get his lover.
5. Rather his false understanding of love push women away
Love isn’t all about findings a knight in shining armor or a damsel in distress. However, decent looks spark attraction which is necessary for the beginning. Without it, women won’t ever think about dating a man.
But when a woman rejects him for this, he feels that he’s too good for these superficial women.
He courts them way too hard to compensate for his looks. He feels a sense of entitlement for reciprocated love if he showers more affection. Women only feel disgusted by such thoughts and push him away.
6. He’s jealous of other men yet does nothing about it
Alphas, betas, and sigmas are much more attractive than him. They groom themselves and people like them romantically and platonically. They are even perceived better in their professional lives for more put-together looks.
Gamma men hate how the entire world likes these men and feel jealous. They hate how they attract high-value women and better opportunities with just a glance and handsome faces.
Even if none of the men ever hurt them, they hate them down to the very core. Yet gamma men never try to improve themselves and people perceive them as losers.
7. The lack of mystery ruins his chances of dating
Unlike other men in the socio-sexual hierarchy, he doesn’t possess a mysterious aura. He’s like an open book and others know everything on his mind.
Starting from his jealousy towards other men down to the entitlement for love… he’s pretty transparent even if he tries to hide his thoughts.
He believes he is better and his lack of authority, status, financial strength, and looks doesn’t help him. Women’s perception of him worsens once they notice his beliefs. His dating life is a total mess because of this.
8. Delusions prevent him from making progress
Honestly, the gamma male personality isn’t that desirable. After all, there are more weaknesses than strengths. So, a gamma man clouds his mind with delusional thoughts to feel confident about himself.
He runs a false narrative in his mind about reality. He believes that he is the true alpha male of his circle but people have yet to realize that. He thinks that being rejected makes him much better than other men. He doesn’t understand that he’s just surrounded by people with low IQs.
The secret king delusion helps him live every day, but it harms their self-improvement journey.
9. He never confronts anyone directly
These men are conflict-avoidant but not because they care about the other person. Rather, they just don’t want to face others’ aggression firsthand.
If they confront anyone, they must face the troubles firsthand. But they don’t have the power to face such situations by themselves. Instead, they show passive aggression to feel better.
They can never oppose someone face-to-face. If you’re his loved one and someone hurts you, don’t expect anything from him. He’d rather make slight inconveniences to your offender and won’t be able to raise their voice.
10. The fear of failure destroys his future
Gamma men have an irrational fear of failure. They are scared of taking risks because of this fear. They always hesitate in all areas to take any action. They don’t want to gain more responsibilities because of this.
As a result, they’ll always step away from any kind of opportunity. After all, risks are present only with good opportunities. If they avoid risks with all their might, they also miss good growth opportunities.
Their career, business, love life, and social life all reach a stand-still point because of their risk-averse nature.
11. He knowingly lies to himself
It’s not that a gamma man doesn’t know the truth. He knows he is not the best and that his way of leading life doesn’t work. Yet, he spins a web of lies to avoid facing the facts of life.
When women refuse him, he believes that those women only want billionaires. He thinks that they are golddiggers and he deserves far better and will get it soon.
If another man has an easier dating life or gets whoever he can, he calls him a player and heartbreaker. He knows that these are dirty lies but he still believes these to console himself and avoid putting in the effort.
12. He just doesn’t understand women
You can’t seduce a woman with only one kind of good thing. It’s not only financial support or only sex. To impress a woman, you need a lot of effort. You begin with flirting, engaging about relatable topics, and connecting over different media. Eventually, this escalates into romantic and sexual attraction.
However, a gamma man doesn’t seem to understand this at all. Even though he’s quite feminine about some aspects of his life… he just doesn’t understand a woman.
He feels that any woman will want him if he went heavy with romantic gestures.
13. He might become too clingy
Even if you fall in love with a gamma man, the relationship can turn troublesome later. Especially, if you like to enjoy your time alone or with your friends, he might become too clingy.
It’s unknown whether all gamma men are this way, but it’s a possibility.
His longing for you might often result in your privacy invasion. Even if you loved him initially, the boundary violation can become a serious turnoff. You might even push him away more often because of his habits.
Unless he knowingly controls this, it might become a huge issue in his relationships.
14. He is easy to hurt and manipulate
He’s emotionally hypersensitive, so the slightest of words can hurt him or make his day. He’s prone to be manipulated because of this. If someone takes advantage of him, he might not easily notice that.
When they need him, they’ll simply spare a few words of validation, acceptance, and appreciation. This melts him into a puddle of goo and makes him want to do whatever for them.
They can also easily make him do something against his wishes. They only have to hurt him with criticism and manipulation trick’s done!
15. He always ignores advice
He believes he is the best because he has the brains in his field. He may not make any final calls for big decisions. But he takes care of his tasks in his own way.
Now, if anyone advises him something different, he acts arrogantly. His self-confidence from his intelligence turns into ego. He feels everyone that opposes his thoughts are either his enemy or a fool. He often puts himself in troublesome situations because he’s not open to adjusting.
16. And then he doesn’t own his mistakes
He stubbornly follows his own ways because of his desire for adventure and his self-confidence on himself. However, a wrong move is bound to bring the worst consequences. He just won’t own his mistakes due to impulsive choices and blame them on life.
On the other hand, he also believes he’s a nice guy, so fate must favor him. But when things don’t follow the plan, he thinks life is unfair. Even though he does nothing to fix the situation, he won’t accept his mistakes.
A word from ThePleasantPersonality
Like all personality types in the socio-sexual hierarchy, gamma males have both strengths and weaknesses.
However, I can’t particularly say that they are great or perfect. You might often struggle to deal with them. But they aren’t completely bad either. It all depends on your perspective, needs, and ways to deal with them.
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