So, you feel you’re a sigma female or have a friend who seems like one? Or are you just curious about this socio-sexual personality?
Well, whichever you are or whatever your question might be, this all-inclusive think-piece will share everything.
C’mon, let’s get right into it!
Sigma Female Infographic
Who is a Sigma Female?
A sigma female is a socio-sexual personality characterized by independence and mystery. She makes her own rules and focuses on her life.
The term sigma female describes strong, independent, confident, and charming women. They are pretty similar to alpha females but are introverted. They are also known as the lone wolf.
But don’t assume that an alpha female is better than a sigma female. This system doesn’t exist to compare women but helps you understand them and their needs better.
So, to understand a sigma female closely, let’s head in…
Sigma Female Traits
If you know the exact personality traits of a sigma female, you can deal with her more effectively, avoid getting on her bad list, and even grow closer to her.
To bond well with a sigma woman and manage her better, familiarize yourself with these traits…
1. Her aura is mysterious
If you’re aware of the concept and personality traits of a sigma female, you won’t take long to identify her because of her mysterious nature.
She stands out because she’s a lone wolf with nobody by her side. She just wants to keep herself away from harm.
She hardly believes anyone and has her back all on her own. You’d want to know more about her but she hardly puts her guard down for that.
2. She’s intimidating
Since female sigma personalities always fight with the world alone, they feel they must show their power and authority to others in their speech and body language. To ward off any person that might have ill intentions towards them, they act in a way to intimidate others.
They aren’t afraid to be louder, confident, and put what’s on their mind. This gives their illwishers the sign that they are not here to be walked over… they are here to rule!
3. She’s compassionate from within
Though she acts rough and tough, a sigma woman is pretty much a sweet pie. She gets emotionally attached to others pretty soon, but hides it so even if she trusts the wrong person, she won’t let them take advantage of it.
She accepts others wholeheartedly even before they know it… and if they betray her, she has a hard time moving on. She just hopes that she’s not wrong to trust them over and over.
4. She loves being independent
Whether in professional, academic, or personal life, you’ll find a sigma female working on her life all alone. She likes to take care of her business solo. She will neither depend on others for help nor push her responsibilities on you.
She’ll rather do her job by herself because she feels more at peace and can depend on her own skills better. If there’s an option, she’ll always choose to work independently.
5. But she’s also a great team player
Let’s say, she doesn’t have the liberty to choose and must work in a team. Well, a sigma female is pretty versatile in more than one way. She can also work in group settings.
She can coordinate pretty well with others, but she still tries to not depend on others for her part of the task. She also tries to get tasks where she doesn’t have to depend on others to finish their part.
Moreover, she also has great leadership skills… but she shows them only when others seek her help.
6. She is the most loyal of the lot
If your close friend, favorite family member, or lover is a sigma female, that’s your best buddy… and you can’t even deny that. A sigma woman always has her loved ones’ back. She is extremely loyal and protective of the people she holds close to her heart.
If anyone hurts you, she’ll make them pay for their sins. She’ll protect you like your guardian angel.
7. She leads life her way
A sigma female doesn’t care about how the world wants her to act. Whether people want her to be more lady-like, to focus on settling down, to lower her standards, to act more humbly, or something else… she can’t care any less.
She wants to lead her life and write her own story… she won’t allow anyone else to dictate her into doing anything. She won’t let her gender, age, or anything else define her life.
8. She isn’t into socializing
A sigma female is an introverted person. She doesn’t like to socialize and feels energized when she’s alone. People often assume she’s lonely, needs friends, and needs to step out in the sun… but none understand that she feels safe by herself.
So, socializing isn’t a great feeling for her. She’d rather stay by herself at home munching on snacks while reading a book or spending time with her loved ones.
9. But she can be the showstopper any day
Though she’s an introvert, she doesn’t embarrass herself when she can’t avoid socializing. Starting from the social hierarchy, and norms, to etiquette, she’s knowledgeable about everything!
She grabs the limelight of the party willingly if it only revolves around her loved ones. But if it doesn’t include close ones, she won’t act stiffly… but she won’t act wild either. Her socializing skills stun others, and people feel more attracted to her and wish to know her.
10. She finds excuses lame
Making or getting excuses is just not her cup of tea. Instead of creating fake excuses and blaming the situation or the lack of time or resources, she’ll just own it that she failed or messed up. She’d rather put that energy into working on her responsibilities and making things perfect.
On the other hand, she won’t buy others’ excuses and ask them to be more responsible. She’d even invest time to help them improve.
11. She won’t judge you
Suppose you’re going through a bad phase in your life. You made some bad decisions, but you didn’t have a choice… and everyone is onto you. Nobody understands you, and they call you a bad person without knowing your story!
But a sigma female won’t judge you unfairly unless she knows the entire story or knows what it feels like to be in your shoes. She knows people are different and believes their choices will be different too.
12. She hates gossiping
So, the girl next door has a crush on her boss? Or maybe two of your married professors are having an affair with each other? Well, even if the entire world wants more updates, a sigma female is the least interested.
She has better things to take care of, and if others’ business bothered her, she’d say it to their face instead of gossiping behind their back. She doesn’t understand the necessity of even talking about others’ lives.
13. Compromising isn’t a big deal to her
In this world, nobody wants to adjust even a small bit, and they are entitled to get everything. They just want more and more and give less.
However, a sigma female desires balance in her life, and she’s ready to reach a middle ground in any situation. If she can’t win completely, she’s ready to lose a bit together and settle things down.
If she’s in a tight situation, she’s ready to make things work no matter how much she needs to compromise!
14. She’s a dedicated woman
A sigma female is also known for her motivation. No matter what hardship she experiences, she won’t let her situation overpower her. She’ll hope for the best throughout and keep pushing until she can make it to the end and fulfill her dreams.
She’s pretty level-headed around dangerous situations, and by any means… with that level of dedication, she’ll make it through any trouble!
15. She hardly keeps up with trends
Social media trends or fashion magazines are the last things on a sigma female’s mind. She knows those trends won’t last long, everything is for the show, people will move on, and it simply doesn’t make sense to her.
A trendy couple’s picture doesn’t make her love real. An in-season bag doesn’t make her high-class. So, she decides to lead life her way without following these pointless trends! Moreover, she doesn’t even bother about social media popularity.
However, these are only a glimpse of the traits, and you can identify a sigma female better with all the minute traits here.
Now, if you know a sigma female personally or are yourself one, you must know her strengths and weaknesses as well. So let’s know more here…
Strengths and Weaknesses of a Sigma Female
Like any human being, sigma females also have strengths and weaknesses. She’s not the best in every field… and it’s wrong to expect that from her. So, let’s start with her strengths here…
1. She protects herself with healthy boundaries
Sigma women know how the world is… that people are unique based on their life and experiences. So, when someone disagrees with them, they know where it’s coming from and don’t blame others for thinking differently. Simultaneously, they don’t let others define their beliefs either.
It’s all because of the best boundaries they put up and never let anyone violate those. They are happy with being different and fight any desire to please others or be the way they expect her to be.
2. She’s an inspiration for everyone
A sigma female is all about strength, confidence, love, loyalty, boundaries, self-love, and so much more to learn from. Her saga can teach you to lead a life in the best possible way. She knows exactly what she needs from life and chases hard enough.
Many people that feel lost in their path feel mesmerized by her willpower to stick to her dreams can show the path to so many!
3. She’s all game for risks
Most people like to stay in their comfort zone… they don’t like changes or challenges. Instead, they feel pretty cozy and happy in a stable position. However, this only stunts their personal growth.
On the other hand, a sigma woman is totally up for calculated risks in her life. She’s all set to go the extra mile to make her life even better and grab the best opportunities for her loved ones.
4. She’s a compassionate woman
A sigma female is a great lover… not just in her romantic relationships… but everywhere she feels safe. If you’re her best friend, she’ll take care of you on days you have a dirty fight with your parents or partner. If you’re her lover, she’ll stick to you through thick and thin.
You’ll never get the same kind of love and loyalty as hers ever again… heck, she’ll even fight with the devil to protect you!
5. She’s always improving herself
This fighter queen never feels down as she loves to change herself for the better. If someone criticizes it, she accepts it like a champ.
If anyone says anything negative, she mentally notes it, thanks them because they saved her from a far worse situation, and works on it. She doesn’t let these get to her.
Of course, if someone attacks her with negativity to hurt her, she’ll definitely know… she’s no innocent baby in this world.
And now, let’s understand her vulnerabilities without judging her…
1. She might seem too stubborn at times
She’s a wild motivated girl… but sometimes, that motivation can be a bit too high for her own good. It’s great that she’s dedicated to her dreams and wants to shine in life… and I have nothing against that.
But she might make too many attempts to fix a not-so-great situation. She might also push too hard and exhaust herself and her resources, and lose too much time on it. This is a major trouble for everyone if her decisions impact others.
2. She gets depressed often
Sigma women know that there’s trouble in the vicinity. People might tell them that they’re overreacting but honestly, she just wants to be safe and keeps an eye out for any danger.
And guess what? She can feel most of the negativity from her ill-wishers. Obviously, she feels bad about how many people don’t want the best for her… even though she did nothing wrong to them. This makes her legit depressed about the world she lives in.
3. She’s sometimes reckless
She loves taking risks and going on adventures… she’s also good with compromising. So, even if she usually takes calculated risks, you never know when the risks might become too dangerous. Especially since she knows she can deal with troubles… yes, you know things can go out of hand.
So, you must try to be around so she doesn’t try anything too risky and remind her about how it might impact others.
4. Her close circle is very small (all credits to her straightforward nature!)
She’s pretty clear with her words and doesn’t like beating around the bush. She says what’s on her mind as it is… and makes sure the other person knows that she’s serious and confident.
She uses this strategy generally to ward off any potential threats… but it also pushes away potential friends. People that mean no harm to her feel offended by the way she conducts herself and closes any possibility of befriending her.
5. She pushes away others with her solitude
A sigma female loves her space and dislikes it when anyone intrudes on her alone time. She doesn’t always prioritize her alone time over loved ones… but everyone in her inner circle respects her space. They feel bad about intruding and just stop asking her out when she’s in a bad phase.
However, things eventually get weird because they can’t connect normally… and people feel too estranged to approach her normally. But that’s only a bit about her, much more about her awaits you in my other piece here.
But are you a sigma female? Then, know yourself better here…
Pros and Cons of being a Sigma Female
If you’re a sigma female yourself, you’ll enjoy the benefits of being independent, confident, motivated, and so on. So, let’s also find the pros…
1. You can make anyone happy
You always know how to make others happy. You try to cheer people up whenever they’re low. You do things that make them feel better and cherished. You don’t want to make anyone feel left out or hurt.
However, if it’s a loved one, you’re ready to step out of the box. You act extra goofy to make them smile or even make fun of yourself to get them to crack up… for you, their smile matters a lot!
2. You have high spirits
Despite what hardships or setbacks you experience, you don’t let the negativity get to your head. You keep your mind free from any pain and bad thoughts. This allows you to have high spirits and deal with every negative situation like a pro.
You don’t ever feel demoralized and chase your dreams until you can make it. Unlike others, you don’t give up easily, and that’s what brings more luck and prosperity in your life.
3. You’re no gossip mongrel
If you feel negative about someone, you don’t go around sharing your feelings or assumptions about someone else. When you feel someone is dumb, you say them as it is to their face instead of letting the entire world, but the actual person, know.
You not only find that stupid but also have no interest or time to share negativity with others. You’d rather be transparent about your thoughts and feelings!
4. You never judge from half stories
Whether you hear rumors about an acquaintance or if something about your coworker is posted on the office group… you just can’t trust any random news from unverified sources.
You’re not one to judge others too fast… unless you know their story completely or can relate to them. If you can’t put yourself in their shoes or can’t imagine dealing with it, you know that it was tough for them, and you’re in no position to judge them. This makes you a better person than the rest.
5. You have great social skills
You might be an introvert but you know exactly what you need to make a social appearance. Since you always stay in your comfort zone, your ill-wishers might try to put you on the spot by making you the emcee of an event.
Boy are they up for a big surprise… because even if you don’t like socializing you fake to like it until you make it! This isn’t just a way to know who your illwishers are… but it also gives you good fame.
And if you’re anxiously waiting about your shortcomings, check these cons of your personality…
1. Your loved ones might feel turned off
You like to spend time with yourself, rejuvenate, and take all the time to feel better from within. You deserve that after all the effort you put in every day. However, you never know how it can impact your loved ones.
Yes, they understand your needs… and they know you’re there for them… but sometimes, they need you while you spend alone time but hesitate. They don’t want to disturb you and feel lonely.
2. You have trouble making friends
Since you’re always wary of new people in your life, you don’t trust people easily. Whenever someone comes in too hard to bond with you, you feel suspicious. You wonder if they have a hidden agenda… and if that person is innocent, you overlook their kindness for too long.
If that person is patient enough, they can wait until you trust them. But if they’re not, you might lose good friends even before making them.
3. You feel left out of conversations
You don’t follow anything trendy and don’t even try to know about them. However, it’s not like your loved ones don’t know about those. They do… and they can’t always avoid those topics in front of you… no matter how understanding they are.
Those moments, you feel left out and kind of think that you and your loved ones belong to two different worlds or that they can’t understand you… even if they can!
4. Introversion leads to missed opportunities
Due to your introverted nature, you often skip social events. You want to stay back and have a fine time unless you don’t have that option.
Though you deserve your rest, it results in many missed opportunities to make social or professional connections… that can help you prosper in different areas of your life.
You also lose your chance to meet a great romantic partner because they don’t even know you exist.
5. You question your capabilities
You feel that you’re an incomplete alpha female because most people assume you’re one… but you know how different you are from an alpha. You hate that you can’t be a perfect full-fledged alpha female. You desire to be so much like them that you’re ready to change everything about yourself.
However, that only pulls down your spirits as you feel less confident. You only send yourself through bad phases dwelling on such thoughts. But these aren’t the only things to be aware of. So, find my detailed list of the pros and cons here.
But are you confused about your personality? Wondering if you’re an alpha or a sigma? Or, do you want to avoid making these silly mistakes? Here you go…
Sigma Female vs Alpha Female
A sigma female is pretty similar to an alpha female. So, many people get confused between the two. So, if you want to avoid embarrassing and offensive moments saying “I like an alpha like you” to a sigma, check here…
1. Sigma females like to work solo while alpha females are outgoing leaders
Sigma females have great leadership skills, but they’re introverted. So, they always work independently instead of leading an entire group. Their skills are usually hidden unless they don’t have a choice but to join a group.
On the other hand, alpha females are outspoken and loud leaders. They always have an eye out for others and lend a helping hand to people in need. Even if they’re not leaders, they still support team members to improve themselves.
2. Sigma females get emotionally attached faster than alpha females
A sigma female seems pretty straightforward, confident and detached from others so that nobody can get a hold of her weaknesses.
But her worst weakness is getting emotionally attached to people she trusts even a bit. She makes herself vulnerable to harm this way. When people unexpectedly betray her, she kicks them out of her life… but deep inside, she can’t get over them.
However, an alpha female doesn’t get emotionally attached fast… and even if a close one hurts her, she quickly gets over them and forgets their existence.
3. Sigma females doesn’t hide her negative feelings, alpha females do
A sigma female doesn’t naturally show her feelings. But when she or her loved ones are hurt, she doesn’t even try to suppress or hide her feelings. She makes her offender pay for the damages one way or the other. However, she won’t go on the same dirty path as her offender… but will only follow the path of justice.
An alpha female, however, conceals her feelings perfectly. She doesn’t let others hurt her to hide her weaknesses.
4. Sigma women aren’t satisfied with themselves unlike alpha women
People often mistake a sigma female for an alpha female. So, she always wonders what she’d be like as an alpha and obsesses over the differences.
She wants to be perfect like an alpha woman and tries to change many things about herself. This is the only thing a sigma female feels self-conscious about.
On the flip side, an alpha woman is completely content with herself. She feels great about how she is and desires to continue being this way.
5. Sigma female inspires only those who know her, alpha females inspire everyone
A sigma female is a great inspiration for people, but she’s prone to be misunderstood. Since she’s introverted and intimidating, most people assume she’s rude and dislikes her.
Until people get close to her, they can’t see her good parts like loyalty, protectiveness, reliability, and so on. So, people get inspired by her only if they’re close.
But an alpha female is pretty loud and clear about her good deeds. She’s outgoing and everyone around knows what she’s up to. So, people feel more inspired by her.
And if you’re also interested in more differences and even some similarities between these women, check here.
Moreover, if you want to compare a sigma female to all the other personality types, here you go!
Comparison with the remaining four personalities
I’ll compare all the other personality types based on the same parameters of a sigma female. So, to avoid unnecessary repetition and make the comparison easier, let’s describe a sigma female first and compare the other women later. So, just dig in!
1. Sigma females are confident, self-dependent, and introverted
Sigma females are pretty confident about their decision. They lead their lives alone and depend on themselves for most of their decisions. So, over time, they trust their instincts much more than anything else.
So, whenever they convey their thoughts or ideas on something, they have an intimidating aura. Nobody can go against their word… let alone start a conflict… even if they wanted to.
Some people might feel extremely uncomfortable with their attitudes and even dislike them for that… but a sigma female never cares about others so long they ward off their ill-wishers.
They also like to stay at home and recharge instead of stepping out. However, they have great social skills.
2. Sigma women are loyal friends
A sigma female takes a long time to bond with anyone. Though she gets emotionally attached to others pretty fast, she doesn’t let anyone know. Instead, she keeps her feelings low so that nobody knows her feelings for real.
However, once she becomes close to others, she becomes passionate about her close ones. She’s ready to put her life on the line for others. If anyone hurts her friends, she’ll even make them pay for it. People assume she’s vengeful… but she just wants the offender to pay for the damages.
3. Sigma females want a strong and authoritative partner
Sigma females thrive to be the best, and they also desire nothing but the best partner. They usually seek alpha and sigma males or females as their life partners. They don’t compromise in their relationships and are ready to even stay single for a long time… until they find their dream partner.
If someone isn’t financially independent, emotionally intelligent, or physically attractive, they don’t feel attracted to them. If their partner becomes too dependent on them for anything, they’ll part their way in a heartbeat. You might even say that they have high standards.
Now that you know the important parts, let’s start comparing them with beta females…
Sigma Female vs Beta Female
To make things clear, a beta female isn’t inferior to anybody but it’s just the way she feels and she tries to act in her “place”. So, without any judgments, let’s know how different or similar she’s to sigma females…
1. Beta females don’t express themselves to avoid conflicts
Unlike sigma females, beta females hardly share their minds confidently. Instead, they feel anxious about expressing themselves because they don’t want to anger the other person.
Otherwise, it’ll lead to conflicts and arguments which make them uncomfortable. They believe that it’s better to stay quiet and avoid conflicts altogether.
2. Beta females are reliable friends and suffer alone
Beta females, like sigmas, make great friends. They are dependable and ready to take over their loved one’s pain. Whenever possible, they actually suffer in their loved ones’ stead. However, they never complain and accept the pain alone.
3. Beta women feel they’re not good enough as partners
A beta female, unlike sigma women, feels that she’s not good enough for anyone. She feels getting anyone as a partner is a miracle and might settle for way less than she deserves. She lacks confidence and never makes the first move on her romantic interest.
Now, let’s roll on to the next…
Sigma Female vs Delta Female
Delta women are known for being helpful and compassionate but they always put themselves first. So, let’s find out how different they are from sigmas…
1. Delta females are introverted
Similar to sigma females, delta women are introverted and like to stay indoors. However, they feel uncomfortable going outdoors… but sigma females are adaptive to their situation and socialize easily when they need to. She never shows her emotions similar to sigma women. She’s realistic.
2. Delta women try to help everyone and burden themselves
Delta females always desire to help others out whenever they can. However, this makes them plagued with too many responsibilities. They promise to help too many and then can’t even keep all of their words.
3. Delta women seek friendship in romance
A delta female, unlike a sigma woman, clearly doesn’t care about her partner’s strength or confidence. She’d rather go for a partner she can act like a goofy friend as well as a naughty partner with. She needs respect and healthy communication in her relationships.
In the social hierarchy, next comes gamma females. So, let’s compare here…
Sigma Female vs Gamma Female
Gamma females are popular for cherishing and treating themselves right. You might assume that this confident queen is pretty similar to sigmas, so let’s make sure here…
1. Gamma women know their worth and are hardworking
Similar to sigma females, a gamma female knows her worth. She doesn’t let anyone make her feel inferior or wrong. She sticks to her decisions confidently until the end. She’s also goal-oriented and hard-working.
2. Gamma females help others
Gamma females are always prepared to help people in need. If someone is genuinely in trouble, they never return them empty-handed.
3. Gamma females only wants the best partner
Like sigma females, gamma women know what they deserve and never settle for less in romance. She only settles for partners that are stronger than her like alpha males. Otherwise, it’s hard to grab her attention.
Lastly, on the list comes omega. So, let’s jump into it…
Sigma Female vs Omega Female
Omega women love themselves more than gamma females. So, you might assume that the differences are quite similar to the last list. But let’s make sure here…
1. Omega females are introverted and non-adaptive
Like sigma females, an omega female loves her solitude. She’s introverted and loves to be in her comfort zone. But unlike a sigma female, she’s not interested in testing her limits.
2. Omega females always prioritize herself over friendships
Compared to sigma females, she’s emotionally intelligent and doesn’t let her offenders hurt her deeply even if she’s attached to them.
She also prioritizes herself over everyone else. Whether it’s her parents or her lover, she’ll cater to others’ needs only after she satisfies herself. She sacrifices herself or her happiness for nobody.
3. Omega women loves herself more than her partner
An omega female prioritizes herself even in her romantic relationships. This doesn’t imply she doesn’t love her partner… but she doesn’t depend on anyone else to be happy.
She believes that she’ll be happy only if she loves herself the most. It can neither be attained by her lover’s love nor does she feel great by sacrifices.
Wondering if there are any well-known sigma females? Let’s hit this list…
Sigma Female Celebrities
To know a sigma female, you must know a woman in person and identify the traits in her. It’s not just hard to reach out to celebrities… but even if you land a one-on-one interview with them, you can’t figure everything out by spending a small amount of time with them.
So, based on the fierce personality, here’s a list of some real-life sigma female celebrities:
- Greta Thunberg (Swedish Activist)
- J.K. Rowling (British Author)
- Roma Army or Chloe Sunderland (TikTok star for her gender equality campaigns)
- Sheryl Lee Ralph (American actress)
- Brandee Evans (American actress and former choreographer)
- Natalie Cole (American singer and songwriter)
- Angela Bassett (American actress)
- Cicely Tyson (American actress), and
- Dr. Nikki Giovanni (American educator, activist, commentator, poet, and writer).
Wondering how a sigma female acts professionally? Let’s get on it here…
Sigma Female at Work
In the professional platform, a sigma female never ceases to amaze others. Whether she’s your boss, coworker, or subordinate, she knows her duty the best. So, let’s know more about her work behavior here…
1. She keeps her personal and professional life separate
She knows exactly how to keep confidential and sensitive info to herself. Since she’s always alert and won’t let her ill-wishers find any weakness, she tries her best to stay distant from people.
Especially since she doesn’t need to bond with her coworkers or business partners, she can play the ice-cold distant queen better. She doesn’t let her personal issues impact her professional life at all.
2. She confidently states her mind
Sigma female never trembles in front of others whether it’s her supervisor, a business partner, or a rival team. She’s confident about her capabilities, so her speech is devoid of any kind of doubt. Others don’t dare to defy her and instead feel intimidated.
Her opponents feel inadequate and insecure about their confidence and abilities when she enters the room and starts talking. Before she questions them, they feel uncertain about their opinions.
3. She’s a solo worker
Since a sigma female is an introvert, she loves to work independently. If given the opportunity. She enjoys working all by herself because she can focus on everything peacefully all by herself.
She doesn’t like to depend on others to fulfill her goals. Some people might feel offended because of her desire to work solo, but she means no harm. Rather, she just doesn’t want to push others with her pace or working style.
4. But she’s a good team player too
Just because she’s a solo worker, it doesn’t imply that she’s bad in team settings. Rather, her reliable and compromising sides become evident in teams.
Everyone can look up to her and depend on her guidance. If anyone complains or seeks help from her, she shows them the way. She won’t demand to be a leader, but she has great leadership skills.
Moreover, she never burdens others with her tasks and undertakes parts that she can do herself from scratch till the end.
5. She’s always motivated
No matter what situation a sigma female employee faces, she never gives up on her goals. Even if she repeatedly fails in her endeavors and people say that it’s time to give up, she won’t. Nothing can impact her resolve once she sets her mind on something.
This helps her win at life more than others. She succeeds in almost all areas of her life owing to her immense strength and stubborn resolve.
If you want to know more about her professionally, you’ll find it all here.
But if you wanna know her personally, keep scrolling!
Sigma Female Relationship
In her interpersonal relationships, a sigma female keeps her distance from acquaintances and is extremely loving towards her close ones. To know more about this fierce queen’s personal life, just head in!
1. Though she tries to be detached, she gets attached soon
Sigma females try to keep their distance from people as long as possible. She’s afraid to open herself up to people because she might open her heart to an enemy… and get hurt big time later on. Of course, that delays any possible friendship or bond in her life.
However, she usually can’t control her feelings and gets emotionally attached too soon. This increases her fear of being cheated.
2. She’s too straightforward for her own good
A sigma female doesn’t like beating around the bush when she has anything on her mind. She states her mind openly without hesitation or softness. She behaves this way to warn her ill-wishers to stay away from her.
However, it doesn’t always work in the best way because her loved ones and potential friends also get turned off this way. This negatively impacts her interpersonal relationships and well-being.
3. Her loyalty is incomparable
A sigma female is incredibly loyal in all her close relationships. Whether you’re a family member, a lover, or a friend, she will never stab your back. Instead, she’ll protect you through rain and shine.
If someone tries to harm you, she unleashes her fierce side and crushes them with her paws. She’ll make them pay for any harm and help you get over your pain. She won’t let you suffer alone and even act silly to make you smile.
4. She’s least bothered about others’ expectations
Society has too many expectations from women… whether it’s about how fast or late they get married and conceive… or about them retiring soon enough so they can focus on their household.
If anyone around a sigma female pesters her about these expectations, she won’t entertain them and even push them away pretty soon. She loves to lead her life on her terms and never compromises about this.
5. She’s quick to lose touch
A sigma female loves to have her space and moment and enjoy the moment. Her loved ones know about her introversion and are usually understanding of it.
However, sometimes, people need her support but just can’t come to disturb her. Of course, if they express it, she won’t return them empty-handed. But, when they can’t convey their feelings, her loved ones eventually lose touch with her.
To know more about her relationships and even her love life, don’t miss this article.
But when romantic relationships are considered, most people say sigma females want to date an alpha male. So, let’s see what to expect from this relationship here…
Sigma Female Dating an Alpha Male
If you want to date an alpha male, that’s great but it’s always not the best idea… because alpha males feel threatened by dominating partners. However, if you’ve laid your eyes on alpha and there’s no turning back, take note of his usual behavior:
1. It’s hard to grab his attention but since a sigma female is unique, she can easily attract him.
2. He’ll be in charge of the significant decisions and choices, so you won’t have a thing to worry about.
3. He’ll control your life and relationship.
4. He’ll protect you from all harm
5. Life will seem pretty old-fashioned because he’ll follow all the gender-oriented roles… but if you like that, it might seem like a fairy tale.
However, if that doesn’t sound too exciting and you don’t know how to maintain a healthy relationship with an alpha partner, here are a few tips:
1. Never compete with him.
2. But don’t get pushed around and have strong boundaries.
3. Be mysterious and don’t show your cards too soon.
4. Be loyal and follow his lead wherever necessary to avoid embarrassing him.
5. Engage in deep conversations and let him show his vulnerabilities
6. Don’t let him get you too fast.
7. Be patient with him and show him you’re always by his side.
8. Never feel intimidated and show him that you’re a good sport.
9. Express yourself without hesitating whenever you feel disturbed
10. Be confident because an alpha male isn’t your only choice. Never let anyone take you for granted.
If you’re a sigma female, you know most of this will come to you naturally. But if you’re not and you wish to be a sigma female, keep reading!
How to be a Sigma Female?
I know how amazing sigma females are… and I relate to your desire to be like her. So, if you’re interested in being a sigma woman, I have just the right guide for you here…
1. Stay reserved
To be a sigma female, you gotta be mysterious. Never ever let others know everything about… otherwise, there will be nothing left for the imagination, and nobody will be interested in you. If people figure you out too soon, they won’t hang around for long.
Moreover, this also helps you protect yourself like a lone wolf. Express yourself if it’s important, but don’t overdo it. Especially protect the info that others can use against you.
2. Confidently state your mind
When you have something to say or beg to differ, don’t hesitate. Hesitation shows that the other person is right and you’re still uncertain about your thoughts. On the other hand, people will question you if you aren’t sure, why even raise questions?
So, whether you’re sure or not, take a deep breath, pump up your chest, make eye contact, and don’t stutter. The other person will know that you’re sure and will reconsider their judgment instead of questioning you.
3. Loyalty for loved ones is a must
It’s okay to keep your acquaintances at your arm’s distance, but never treat your trustworthy loved ones this way. Instead, always be prepared to protect them at the drop of a hat. Support, love, and motivate them. Be their one and only reliable buddy they can turn to.
If anyone hurts your loved one, seek justice for them. If you feel someone wants to hurt them, warn your loved one ASAP and protect them.
4. Depend on yourself
Another way to be a sigma female is to be self-dependent. Don’t rely on others, and try to be responsible for your actions. Even if your choices got you in trouble, don’t expect help from others or blame others for it. Instead, get on to figure out the mess yourself.
If you’re in a group task, don’t depend on others with your work and take care of things yourself. However, if you truly can’t figure it out, it’s okay to get help… but don’t make it a habit.
5. Stay strong
A sigma female is motivated at all times of her life. So, make sure you don’t let any person, thing, or situation get to you. Believe in yourself and keep pushing. Don’t let the negative thoughts creep in.
Take your time because you can’t become a motivated person overnight. You need a solid plan like meditation, self-love, and positive practices. So, if you’re interested to know more, read in-depth article here.
But if you’re a sigma female and want to lead a happier life, here you go…
What to do if you’re a Sigma Female?
If you’re the sigma female, you have some complaints about yourself even though you’re pretty amazing. So, improve yourself and feel more confident with my guide…
1. Be aware when you’re stubborn
You’re motivated, strong, and stubborn because you only want to win in life… and that’s great. I don’t wish to demotivate you in any way. However, before you stubbornly stick to your goals after failing once, think about the chances of winning.
Calculate how many more times you can take the chance, what it’ll need, and what you might lose.
2. Communicate when you’re depressed
Being a sigma female, you’re always stressed about the possible troubles around you. You even identify some destructive energy around you. While that protects you from major trouble later, it inflicts a lot of psychological damage.
So, whenever you feel low, feel free to express yourself to your loved ones. Let them take care of you and nurse you back to positivity.
3. Take space mindfully
You need alone time to recharge and prepare yourself to deal with your daily life. That’s completely understandable, but ensure that you don’t overlook your loved ones’ needs. At times, they need your support but hesitate to say it. It’s your job to understand the cues and support them.
If someone asks if you’re free but doesn’t give you a proper reason behind it, know that something’s up and they’re hesitant.
4. Understand your romantic needs
Your romantic life might be a total mess because you want a powerful man like an alpha male… but you also want to dominate your relationship. Contrary to popular belief, you might not be compatible with alpha only or at all.
So, understand what your heart truly desires the most. Is it protection or is it obedience? Or do you just wanna be equals? Figure your heart out, girl!
5. Don’t be too hard on your emotions
You desire to be an alpha female mostly because you get emotionally attached too soon and can’t get over it when the time comes. Well, you can try to be an alpha female… but will you truly be happy about being an extrovert?
Trust me, you’re great the way you are and a change is the last thing you need. So, I recommend you knowing about more things to do for being a sigma female here.
But are you still uncertain about your socio-sexual personality? Then let’s talk here…
How to identify if you’re a Sigma Female?
If you’re not aware whether you’re a sigma female or not, don’t follow the above-mentioned steps. Though there isn’t any personality test to find your answer, I have a fun quiz to help you.
Whether you’re a sigma female or not, it’ll be as clear as the day once you answer 50 deep questions about yourself. All you have to do is just visit here. – Take the test calmly and return… don’t worry, I’ll wait for you!
So, the results showed you aren’t a sigma female but you think your acquaintance’s habits matched up? Wondering how to get along? Let’s know it here…
How to deal with a Sigma Female?
Being around a sigma female is pretty nerve-wracking… she intimidates you and the nervousness makes you act like a dork! To avoid getting on her nerves and act calmly, follow these simple steps…
1. Respect her wishes
A sigma female likes to be independent due to her introversion. She doesn’t like it when anyone intrudes on her space. She also likes to maintain a distance until she knows you’re trustworthy.
These are her basic traits and you can’t change these in any way… it’s a part of her. So, never ask her to depend on you, to express herself more, or to spend more time with you. Otherwise, she’ll put her guard up even harder.
2. Don’t get intimidated
She acts extremely intimidating towards people she isn’t well-acquainted with. This helps her tell her foes that they can’t walk all over her. However, even innocent people and potential friends get turned off by this. Moreover, she believes that only her enemies will get intimidated.
So, to prevent her from misunderstanding, try to be sporty and not get intimidated by her. Appreciate her confidence and learn from her!
3. Never demand her to change
Sigma females are tired of society’s demands of being a “perfect lady” and they just can’t take it. They’ll lead their life their way whether anyone says anything or not. So, it’s not just a waste of time but also helps them figure out who to avoid in their life.
So, never tell her how to live or how to be womanly… she has had enough of these conversations. Instead, if anyone acts this way, stop them.
4. Own your mistakes
A sigma woman neither gives excuses nor buys any of it. She’s all about giving effort until you make it. So, when things go wrong, never give excuses or blame someone else. Instead, be truthful about your issues and work hard. If needed, seek her help to improve yourself and she’ll gladly assist you.
5. Don’t hurt her
This one goes without saying that you mustn’t hurt anyone knowingly. However, be extra cautious when it’s a sigma female. Don’t hurt her even unknowingly because she’s too fierce to handle then.
She doesn’t believe in revenge but makes her offenders pay for their offenses. For her, justice is always important. Of course, she won’t hurt you if it’s a genuine mistake, but better be careful than sorry!
If these steps got you hooked, there are more… click here to ace it!
A personality isn’t easy to understand, so to clarify all the doubts, don’t miss these questions here…
FAQs about Sigma Female
Understanding a sigma female isn’t easy… more because she’s so much like an alpha female yet far from the same. So, whether you wanna date a sigma female, know about her compatibility, or just wanna make sure that this personality is good at all, catch your answers here…
When it comes to compatibility in romantic relationships, the sexual polarity of the partners is more important than their personality types. Human beings, despite their gender, have both masculine and feminine energies, so the energy kind anyone has more is their sexual polarity.
For instance, if one of the partners primarily has masculine energy, the other must primarily possess feminine energy.
When it comes to sigma women, they usually have a high concentration of masculine energy. So, these sigma women are quite compatible with women beta males due to their primary feminine energy.
But some sigma females also have excess feminine energy and they’re compatible with alpha and sigma males as they have high masculine energy.
A sigma female might be a tough nut to crack… she has a maiden’s heart and her needs in her partner are a little more than the basics. So, to attract a sigma female, you must be assertive, brave, confident, charismatic, intelligent, wealthy, and have a good sense of humor along with the power to take charge of a tough situation and care for others.
You must also respect her space and let her have her alone time. You must neither get intimidated by her overbearing nature nor fear losing your power if she takes charge. If she wants to do certain things her way, you must be open about it.
If you compare a sigma female with a sigma male, you’ll find they have somewhat similar personality traits. And naturally, a biological woman is known as a sigma female and a biological man can be a sigma male. So, it is rather offensive to call a woman a sigma male.
However, in this day and age, gender isn’t just binary. Some people want to be identified with different pronouns. For instance, biological women feel they’re truly a man from within, get gender reassignment surgery, change their pronouns even in their birth certificates, and so on.
So, in these cases, it totally depends on the woman about whether she wants to be identified as a sigma female or male.
Having a sigma female personality type brings a lot of positive sides in any woman. However, there are always two sides to a coin. While a sigma female is full of amazing traits, this personality type brings a lot of trouble in a woman’s romantic relationships.
She’s an introvert, so she hardly connects enough in social events and misses out on the opportunity to find a suitable partner.
On the other hand, she wants a powerful mate like an alpha or sigma female. But these men want submissive, obedient, and feminine women… so, unfortunately, she’s usually not what her romantic interest seeks.
If you’re a sigma female and want to work on your romantic relationships and have an alpha or sigma male (or female) in your life, you have no other option than to suppress your sigma traits.
For instance, if you don’t have a partner yet, be more willing to socialize (but only so long you don’t feel exhausted.
If you found the alpha or sigma partner of your dreams, stop dominating him/her and be more like equal partners in the relationship.
If it’s hard to undergo such personal transformation all alone, you can always seek a relationship coach or a life coach.
However, don’t try to change yourself or your personality type completely to fit in someone else’s life. Make yourself happy before creating a healthy relationship.
A word from ThePleasantPersonality
If you know a sigma female, try to be more understanding about her. She doesn’t ask for much other than respect and loyalty. And anyone can do it if they set their mind to it. So, treat her well and she’ll have your back forever.
But if you are a sigma female yourself, I know you desire to be the best. So, don’t forget to know all of the pros and cons of your personality and learn to work on it. You’ll soon become the woman you always desired to be!
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